Nature is full of conflicts. Conflicts are required to get the best out of all. Conflicts bring different flavors of life and blends it together. If only one view exists then entire life will be little boring.

There are conflicts at office ,home, Clubs etc. Slowly by seeing others and with your own maturity you somehow learn to handle these conflicts to some extent. These are very visible to all.

There is a silent inner conflicts which everyone faces and which is not visible to anyone outside. Sometimes even you are not aware of this conflict but you only face the consequences. How to handle them? You cannot talk about it. You do not see others how they are handling. Even you are not sure if others ever face it or is it only you?

With all these you are boxed inside your own thoughts and try to fight it out yourself. If you are very lucky to have someone around you to discuss then you speak up and get suggestions like from parents or elders. This is a great boon. But many a times it is difficult to open up assuming they will not understand.

So either you resolve it by yourself or ask for help. To resolve yourself you must pay attention to your conflicts, their reasons, your priorities, what you do want, your social obligations etc. You must be mentally strong to analyze your own emotions and understand what is going on inside. When you can understand the root cause of your conflict, you can slowly work on it.

If not, you must discuss with someone or do not hesitate to take professional help as they are experts on  how you can handle such things.

If you are the one who understands your own nature well and have ability to see things unbiased, then you will be able to resolve your conflicts and come to a decision yourself. It is possible!

Cheers,

Zusftine