Remember your childhood, the days were probably happier. Out of many factors there was one important factor that you never tried to control anything or change anything. Most of the time you went with the flow just safeguarding your self interest. You were more spontaneous and used to react as required by the situation and time. If there was nothing serious to bother you, most of the time you were happy with all what you had.

What changed when you grew up? Your capability and desires both increased. Now you can do what is required for yourself and for others.But you also started to expect more from others on what and how they should do something. Now you do not go with the flow as you believe you can control and change flow as per your desire.

Changing things as per your need is not bad but expecting this to happen 100% creates a concern. Sometimes just go with the flow. Let things happen as per others. You will notice new pathways will open up. You may achieve lot of things through different ways which had never thought of.

So surrender yourself sometimes. Surrender to go with the situations without any resistance and find amazing outcomes.

Cheers,
Zustfine