With the busy life you tend you see only what you want. Entire day lot of things are happening around you. Many might be going unnoticed. Days, months, years might be passing like that.
Take some time out, a day when your schedule is not too heavy. Slow down your activities on the day and try to observe whatever is going around you with interest. Do not judge anything or do not try to control anything, just observe.
Once you observe you will find many new things happening around you. You may see a new perspective of the same people with whom you are dealing with every day. You may find out many things you never realized it exists. This will lead you to think differently on many aspects of your life. It will show many ways how you can resolve your existing conflicts and solutions for many of your dilemmas.
Solution of many problems and ways to blocked issues, sometimes are hidden in things around you. You just have to calm down to see those.