Your entire life you focus on what you value the most. Time to time, depending upon the phase of life it might change what you value. But predominantly your instinct try to do what you focus on.
Now question comes are you aware what you value the most? Probably you never paid attention to it. Try to check, is you daily actions working towards what you value the most.Day to day may be you are spending all your precious time in trivial matter which is not relevant to you or to your life.
May be society, peer pressure and other distractions are taking you away from doing what you need the most. No one around you will care for what is important to you. It is you who will have to think about yourself. Your life is entirely yours. Rather living a life by consequences, take charge and create something what you want.
First find out what you value the most and what is important for you. Running behind something aimlessly will not make you land anywhere.
Take charge to work towards what means to you and you value the MOST!
Cheers,
Zustfine