Nature has given an ability to grow, for all living things. Even if someone doesn't want , growth will happen. You are moving towards something every day - every moment. The quality and direction of growth is entirely on you.
So force has been given by someone else and you have to steer it properly. Without any effort you will grow in some direction on every aspect of your life. Direction you decide. Direction is your choice. If you are a good driver you will steer it beautifully even though roads are bumpy. You will make yourself and others comfortable with you.
Many a times you invest your energy in putting the force which is anyway available and you forget that your effort is required to steer it well. Because this part only you do for your life.
Never leave the handles of your life to others. Even if a pothole comes in front of you, you are the only one who knows what to do in that situation- whether to stop or jump or bypass or fall into the pit.
Take charge of the direction of your growth and steer it well towards your goal!
Cheers,
Zustfine