Out of all the pains and disappointments, the one which is very common with most, is getting hurt in relationships. Closer the relationship, more is the pain when things do not work.

In every relationship there is a common element that is expectation. As a relationship grows stronger, the expectations as well grows. Sometimes this expectation is more in one side and it puts the other person under obligation. This obligations slowly becomes a pressure and the sweetness of relationship starts to diminish.

When there is a freedom in any relationship, the relationship blossoms. The moment conditions and rules start cropping up,it becomes a duty and slowly you start feeling suffocated. The charm is lost.

To maintain the sweetness and beauty of any relationship, it has to be respected and it has to be set free. When any relation grows little stronger, possessiveness is very likely to overpower. This possessiveness forces to do something which curtails the freedom of the other person. You might think your act is out of love and you expect love in reciprocation. When you do not get the same reciprocation, this is the point you are hurt and you become confused.

If you keep the expectations low in any relationship then you will be overjoyed when you get something and it will not bother you much if you do not get much in reciprocation. Invest in relationships to make it positive and impactful in your life.

Cheers,
Zustfine