Problems will always come and go in life. You have two options- either be a part of your problem or be a part of the solution. Whatever you choose will multiply.
Your obvious choice will be to be part of the solution. But to exercise that choice is not very obvious. Because you will need little will power to do so. For most of the people the natural tendency is to first cry over the problem and find out the reasons to blame someone for that.
Build an attitude to look for solutions whenever hit by any problem. You have to train your mind to do so to create a mental habit. Initially you have to force your mind to think for a solution and stop focusing on the problem.
Once a mental habit is set, it will be natural for you to handle any situation effortlessly.
Try to be a solution for any problem.